You can't watch every message, every game chat, every video he sees — and eventually, you won't be able to at all. So the real question isn't "how do I monitor everything." It's "what does he do when nobody's watching."
Scare tactics teach him to tune you out. Surveillance teaches him to hide things better. Neither one prepares him for the moment that actually matters.
The Green Light Rule gives him one simple rule he can run himself, in two seconds, in any online situation — a DM from a stranger, a weird group chat, something he wasn't expecting.
Inside you'll find:
- The 3-color framework he can use without you in the room
- The exact 3 red-flag triggers that mean stop and tell an adult
- A no-panic weekly check-in that keeps him talking to you
- Real scenarios: strangers, peer pressure, and what to do if he's already hidden something
You don't need to watch every message. You need him to know what to do — and to still come to you when it counts.